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Discipline: When ‘I Should’ Becomes ‘I Will’

February 22, 2026

“Discipline is one of the most hated terms of our times… But have you noticed how often it comes up in the testimonies of those who win?” — Chuck Swindoll

I won’t speak for you, but when I read that quote, it pierced straight through me. I’ve long believed discipline is “the name of the game,” if you will, in just about every worthwhile pursuit. Think about it: the things that harm us usually require zero effort — mindless scrolling, junk food, procrastination, unchecked anger. But the things that truly build us up? They demand consistent, often uncomfortable effort.

Practically speaking, if you want physical health, you make conscious decisions to eat nourishing food and move your body regularly. If you want a sharper mind, you can’t waste days doom-scrolling videos that slowly erode focus and fry brain cells. If you want success in your vocation, you pursue education, build meaningful networks, and grind through the work required to advance. As a Christian, I believe every good gift flows from our gracious Lord (James 1:17). Yet He never grants us a free pass to coast through life simply because “He’s got us covered.”

Scripture is full of action-oriented commands: go, make disciples, pray without ceasing, love your neighbor, give generously, hope steadfastly, trust deeply. The list goes on. Matter of fact, our lives as believers are designed to revolve around a servant-hearted posture — first looking to Christ, then to others, then (lastly) to ourselves. When so many craft five-year plans centered on “me, myself, and I,” the Lord calls us to something higher: lives oriented toward obedience, service, and sacrifice. That means our days are meant to be full of doing — and doing well requires readiness. When the Lord says “go,” our knee-jerk response should be, “Here I am!”

So, how does discipline fit into all of this — practically and spiritually?

At its heart, discipline is the bridge between good intentions and faithful obedience. It’s the daily training that turns “I should” into “I will,” aligning our habits with God’s call to action.

Practically, discipline resembles an athlete’s regimen. The Apostle Paul paints this picture vividly in 1 Corinthians 9:24–27: “Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it… I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified.” Paul isn’t earning salvation here — that’s by grace through faith alone — but he’s describing how we steward the life God entrusts to us so we can finish strong and bear lasting fruit.

Discipline means saying no to instant gratification (endless social media feeds, late nights, laziness) so we can say yes to what strengthens us, such as consistent movement for the body, focused study for the mind, diligent work and wise relationships for our calling. It’s rarely glamorous. Rather, it often feels like drudgery in the moment. But good habits compound just like bad ones do, only the payoff is greater health, clearer thinking, deeper impact, and the quiet joy of honoring God with our time and energy.

Spiritually, discipline carries even greater weight. That is because the goal isn’t mere self-improvement, but godliness. Paul urged Timothy, “Train yourself for godliness” (1 Timothy 4:7). The word “train” here means rigorous, intentional exercise — like a fighter or gymnast preparing for battle. The spiritual disciplines such as daily Scripture intake, prayer, fasting, worship, solitude, service, authentic fellowship are the training that builds spiritual endurance. No, they don’t earn God’s favor since that’s already secured in Christ. However, they open us to receive His transforming grace more deeply. Through them, the Holy Spirit cultivates fruit like self-control (Galatians 5:22–23), turning discipline from burdensome rule-keeping into joyful partnership with God.

Consider Proverbs 25:28: “A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls.” Without discipline, we’re vulnerable to every distraction, temptation, or fear that blows through. But with it, graciously empowered by the Spirit, we’re fortified to respond when God calls us to radical love, quick forgiveness, bold faith, or inconvenient service — that which, if we’re honest, doesn’t really come naturally to us.

Discipline, especially discipline rooted in faith, transforms vague intentions into daily bread that sustains us. It turns a servant-hearted ideal into lived reality. Rather than saying, “I should pray more,” we more consistently take time to pray the moment it crosses our mind. Rather than saying, “I should reach out more,” we start seeking out opportunities to lend a hand. Rather than saying, “I should evangelize,” we’ll grow eager to get out there and share the Good News.

Yet, as we consider the necessity of discipline in our lives, here’s the crucial balance: biblical discipline is never grim legalism or sheer willpower. It’s grace-fueled. We don’t bootstrap our way to holiness; we abide in Christ, who is the vine (John 15:5). When we stumble — and we will — His mercy restores us, and His Spirit supplies the strength for the next faithful step. Discipline, rightly understood, becomes an act of worship: “Here I am, Lord — train me, shape me, use me.” It’s choosing the small daily yeses that prepare us for the big Kingdom moments.

So, perhaps now is as good a time as any to pause and ask ourselves: Where is discipline lacking in my life? Is it in quiet time with the Lord? The stewardship of body and time? The readiness to serve when it’s inconvenient or unseen? The beautiful truth is you don’t have to manufacture discipline from nothing. Start small — perhaps five extra minutes in the word, a short walk instead of scrolling, one intentional act of service — and lean hard on the Spirit. Trust that “He who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ” (Philippians 1:6).

Those who “win” — spiritually, relationally, eternally — aren’t always the most talented or fortunate. In fact, they’re just fellow image bearers, such as yourself. But the winners are the ones who show up, day after day, disciplined and dependent on grace. And when we do? We don’t merely survive. We thrive as the ready, servant-hearted people God designed us to be — equipped to say “Okay!” the moment He says “Go.”

It’s a hard, holy, and grace-soaked way to live. May we embrace it together.

Sarah Holliday is a reporter at The Washington Stand.



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