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Trusting Providence: Why We Must Not Complain Even When God’s Plan Hurts

February 15, 2026

When I look back on life, I’m amazed at how much sense it makes. Hindsight, they say, is 20/20. Yet sometimes the clarity crashes in like a thunderclap of grace, a divine revelation that stops you in your tracks: See? It really did turn out more than okay. It turned out beautifully. Purposeful. Glorious.

In the heat of the moment, though, life rarely feels that way. Trials press in, confusion swirls, and pain can seem relentless. Our natural response is to cry out, “Why, God? Why this? Why me?” These aren’t always complaints born of rebellion. Often, they’re honest pleas from weary hearts longing for understanding. We ache for answers to the afflictions we endure, and when those answers don’t come quickly — or at all — we can feel abandoned or overlooked.

And if those answers do come, it’s commonly not until much further down the road. Only then do we see all the magnificent ways God really did use poor circumstances for our good and His glory.

Because of this, Scripture invites us to a deeper trust — one that runs deeper than sight. Trust that doesn’t insist on instant explanations but anchors itself in the unchanging character of the One who numbers every hair, catches every tear, and writes every chapter. Romans 8:28 doesn’t promise that some things work for good — it declares that all things do, for those who love God and are called according to His purpose. The shattered dreams, the agonizing delays, the seasons of sorrow… He gathers every fragment and threads them into a masterpiece of redemption whose full beauty we cannot yet discern.

Joseph’s story in Genesis is a prime example of this. Sold into slavery by his brothers, falsely accused, forgotten in prison — he could have spent decades questioning God’s plan. But years later, standing before those same brothers, he declared, “You meant evil against me, but God meant it for good” (Genesis 50:20). What looked like senseless suffering became the means of saving many lives from famine. Hindsight revealed providence at work.

Even the cross itself — the darkest hour in history — shines brightest in hindsight. Jesus walked toward Calvary with full knowledge of the Father’s will. The disciples? They stumbled in misunderstanding after misunderstanding. They rebuked Him for speaking of His impending death (Matthew 16:22), failed to grasp His predictions (Mark 9:32), and scattered in terror when the nails were driven. To them, the crucifixion looked like utter defeat: the Messiah crushed, hope extinguished, dreams buried in a borrowed tomb.

But resurrection morning changed everything.

For the disciples, full clarity only came after the Christ rose from the dead, when He explained the Scriptures to them on the road to Emmaus (Luke 24:25–27, 44–45), and they later reflected: “Were not our hearts burning within us while He talked with us on the road and opened the Scriptures to us?” (Luke 24:32). What had seemed catastrophic was unveiled as the fulfillment of Isaiah 53 — the final victory over sin, death, and hell. Defeat in real time became triumph in eternity. If the early church could only see God’s hand clearly after the fact, wouldn’t that be the same for us?

Those “magnificent ways” God uses our circumstances often remain hidden until we’ve walked through the fire and emerged on the other side. They only become sweet and dear when the flood that once surrounded us subsides, failing to overcome us since His hand kept us afloat. Only then do we begin to grasp how a closed door protected us, how a season of waiting built perseverance, or how pain deepened our dependence on Him. What felt like chaos was really divine choreography — His sovereign hand guiding every step, even when He seemed far off.

When the questions rise again — and they will — we must resist the temptation to complain against God’s providence. When the instinct to grumble rises, flex the muscle of faith instead. We may not grasp the why today, but we can cling to the Who: a Father who never squanders a single tear, who turns mourning into dancing (Psalm 30:11), whose light and momentary afflictions are forging for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison (2 Corinthians 4:17).

If this is the God who spoke galaxies into being, who upholds the stars by the breath of His mouth, who did not spare His own Son but delivered Him up for us all — can He not be trusted with the small, fragile span of our lives? The psalmist put it beautifully: “When I look at Your heavens, the work of Your fingers, the moon and the stars, which You have set in place, what is man that You are mindful of him?” (Psalm 8:3–4). Yet He is mindful. He does care. That’s the miracle!

You see, we can flip our own scripts. Instead of “Why is this happening to me?” whisper, “Father, this hurts, but I trust Your good, perfect, and unstoppable will.” Instead of “Has God abandoned me?” declare, “Lord, You promised never to leave me nor forsake me. Your steadfast love endures forever. I choose to stand on Your unbreakable word.” When we feel lost and afraid, repeat the word back to yourself: “Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord forever” (Psalm 23:4-6).

Even when providence stings, remember: He did not send His Son to Golgotha’s agony only to abandon us in ours. If the path of the perfect Son included a cross, why would we demand a crown without thorns?

So, here’s the call: look back and give thanks for yesterday’s mercies. Look forward in hope, knowing tomorrow’s story is already written by the same loving Author. And in the present tension? Rest. He is good. He is wise. He is near. One day soon — oh, glorious day — the full unveiling will come. Every tangled thread will glow with meaning. Every tear will be gently wiped away by nail-scarred hands. Death will be swallowed up forever. Mourning, crying, and pain will vanish like mist before the dawn (Revelation 21:4). No more questions. No more confusion. Only the endless, radiant worship of the Lamb who was slain — who reigns now and forever.

As John Newton once wrote, “The hour is coming when we shall be astonished to think what mere trifles were once capable of discouraging us.” Those heartaches that once loomed so large will shrink to shadows in the blaze of His glory. So, lift your eyes, weary pilgrim. The story isn’t over. The Author hasn’t faltered. He’s weaving beauty from ashes, joy from sorrow, life from death. Trust Him. Worship Him. Wait for Him. And when at last we stand before the throne — when we see the masterpiece complete, every wound redeemed, every loss outweighed by glory — we will fall on our faces and cry with one voice: “Worthy is the Lamb who was slain, to receive power and wealth and wisdom and might and honor and glory and blessing!” (Revelation 5:12).

He has done it all. He will finish it all. And in that day, every knee will bow, every tongue confess, and the universe itself will echo with endless, thunderous, unfathomably marvelous praise. Until then — hold fast. He is coming. And He is making all things new.

Sarah Holliday is a reporter at The Washington Stand.



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